Per review: gate the return-to-list behaviour behind a setting,
returnToListAfterAction, defaulting to true (the Gmail/Yahoo default). When off,
deleting the open message keeps the previous auto-advance-to-next behaviour.
Adds the setting to the store (persisted), a toggle under Reading settings, and
i18n keys across all locales (English; non-English need translation). The same
setting will govern mark-as-unread (#468).
