Fix: stop resurrecting deleted rows in the mailbox refresh merge

Fixes #592.

refreshCurrentMailbox merges the refreshed first page with the already
loaded list, appending existing entries beyond a cutoff. That cutoff
was derived from the refreshed list's length - so whenever a folder
shrank, the fresh page was shorter than the stale list and the loop
re-appended the deleted rows from stale local state, despite the
comment right above promising the opposite.

The visible result is the reported bug: after sending a draft, the
Drafts view keeps showing a ghost row for the already-destroyed draft.
The send actually succeeded - resending the ghost delivers the mail
again, which we reproduced with a live JMAP trace: four successful
submissions, an empty server-side Drafts folder, a notFound ghost id,
and five delivered copies. Deriving the cutoff from the page size
fixes the shrink case while preserving the merge's intent for
arrivals and loaded deeper pages; regression tests cover all three
shapes.

Also surface post-send filing failures instead of dropping them, as
flagged in 4dc76bbb's follow-up note: a rejected onSuccessUpdateEmail
patch or old-draft destroy now logs the server's error details and
returns a filingError on SendEmailResult, and the UI shows a warning
toast (all 23 locales) so a stale draft row is never again mistaken
for a failed send. A plugin veto of the send leaves a debug trace.

locales/ro/common.json

@@ -685,7 +685,8 @@
     "recipient_email_placeholder": "Adresă de e-mail",
     "recipient_name_placeholder": "Numele afișat",
     "autocomplete_search_server": "Caută pe server",
-    "autocomplete_searching": "Se caută..."
+    "autocomplete_searching": "Se caută...",
+    "send_filing_warning": "Trimis - dar curățarea ulterioară a eșuat, poate rămâne o ciornă veche."
   },
   "confirm_dialog": {
     "confirm": "Confirmare",